Friday of the Third Week of Lent - March 29, 2019
As I
read over today’s scripture readings, the phrase “forgive all iniquity, and
receive what is good, that we may render as offerings the bullocks from our stalls”
continues to pull at me. I like to think
of myself as a forgiving person, but in looking back, I struggle more with that
than I have admitted to myself.
The job
of being a parent is the most rewarding one you will ever have, but as my boys
get older and wiser, it is also the most challenging. The older one is neuro-typical and the
younger one struggles with ADHD and anxiety.
The years it took to find out what his struggles were and to find the
best ways to help him are such a blur at this point. I think we are moving in the right direction
with his therapies, but it seems to be a never-ending work in progress.
Now you
might wonder where forgiveness comes into play here. Throughout the years, there have been many
situations where my son’s actions were not appropriate or “normal” in the eyes
of others and he was lashed-out against with words. As his mother, I was not happy with him being
talked to that way by a stranger and it broke my heart. Each time, in looking back, I probably could
have been more forgiving of the person’s ignorance of our situation and could
have had a godlier response. However, I
would also like to think that they could have been more understanding of others
whose situation they did not know.
During
this Lenten season, let us remember to listen to God’s words and obey Him. We
all have our struggles, but we need to remember to be forgiving of others. Forgiveness comes from within and it helps to
heal the hurting heart. All difficult
situations affect us in one way or another, but they do not have to define the
person we are or become. I choose to be more understanding and forgiving than I
have in the past and it feels good. Open
your eyes, ears and heart to God. Can
you try this as well?
Q: Who do I need to forgive? From whom do I need
to ask forgiveness?
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